I watched this transition take place over the first half of my lifetime. Note that this post is addressed to Christian believers. If you don’t count yourself among those, that is quite OK. Just read with the intended audience in mind. If you don’t like the way the word “lost” is used, well, clearly there is a language barrier here. See if you can move past it.
If our churches have to be a little more uncomfortable to us insiders in order to reach even one lost soul for Christ, that’s a sacrifice we should all be willing to make.